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General => IHADAV8 Playground => Topic started by: 87natty on July 28 2008, 12:21:56 PM
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OMG, Brian, our thoughts and prayers are will you and your family. Only time will tell. All you can do is hope for the best. Hang in there.
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My experience has taught me this: whether the doctors have good news or bad, act as you would anyway...they're usually wrong. I hope to hear from you when it's cool/appropriate.
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Thanks the two of you. I'll definitely call when I can put things into words, writing is easier than talking right now.
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Sylvan is right, hang in there buddy.
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Brian,
Hang in there man. When you need to talk, you got my number...
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Hey Bud......
sorry for sad news, there is hope!
my mom had a stroke, was questionable for week or so,
then, thru therapy and perseverance, she regained all her memory, and skills,
was "good ole Mom" again......
best thoughts for ya!!!!!
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Many of you know whats going on here.
My mom has had several strokes over the years, which
to some degree has complicated things these days.
A close friend of mine had a severe one a few years ago, and
to this day all he can do with his left arm is wiggle his fingers a little.
And just within the last few months, my sister's husband has had a
stroke and a couple weeks later a TIA.
As mentioned, keep in good contact with his doctors and hang in there.
Call if I can be of any help.
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I'll be calling all of you sooner or later. Thanks for the support, I'm just taking it as it comes. I might be a little distant, but keep me inspired people.
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Don't give up hope! We are here for you, Brian.
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I can't stop thinking about how fucking great each and every one of you are. There's an update at TBS, keep the faith with me. I have to help him over every hill, but I won't mind.
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I read it on TBS, that is great news that he is noticing things. Keep being there for him. All I can say hang on tight for all the ups and downs. Sounds like things are going good so far which is EXCELLENT!!!!!!
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Sorry to here about your dad. I understand exactly what you are going through. We are thinking about you and your family.
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This thing is a fucking rollercoaster, more on it tomorrow.
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This thing is a fucking rollercoaster,
It usually is. :prayer:
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Brian, how is your father doing? Just hope all is still going well.
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He's better. He starts physical and speech therapy today, they're moving him to a skilled nursing facility. Such a fucking rollercoaster, but you guys are so awesome. I've just been working on his decrepit house lately. THOUSANDS of bottle in his garage, and they all have to go. Fire marshall came and will begin citing in 7 days, so I'm off to start on the pile again, but it sucks balancing this between visiting my Dad and working.
As far as Dad goes, he's talking more, can keep his eyes open and wants to get out of bed and leave the hospital, he can't take it. He's still a little out of it, but he's making progress.
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He's better. He starts physical and speech therapy today, they're moving him to a skilled nursing facility. Such a fucking rollercoaster, but you guys are so awesome. I've just been working on his decrepit house lately. THOUSANDS of bottle in his garage, and they all have to go. Fire marshall came and will begin citing in 7 days, so I'm off to start on the pile again, but it sucks balancing this between visiting my Dad and working.
As far as Dad goes, he's talking more, can keep his eyes open and wants to get out of bed and leave the hospital, he can't take it. He's still a little out of it, but he's making progress.
Glad to hear that he is doing better. Hang in there. Can you try and call/talk to the fire marshall that he had a stroke and that you are going to clean it up and you need a little more time? Would that help?
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That's great news. How the hell did the fire marshall get involved?
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That's great news.
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Funny how what is 'lawn art' in NM is against the law in CA.
I hope he's the most stubborn bastard on Earth, bro. I hope to meet him in November.
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Yup, firefighters went into the house looking for any medication or family members inside. Neither were there, but his house was a fucking wreck. His water heater popped, and so he shut the water off. This in turn backed up the sewer lines, leading to toilets in horrible states. My father NEVER liked asking for help, and never liked us inside his house when we'd visit. So he'd visit us.
He pack-ratted piles of newspapers and junk mail, which were fire hazards. And the whoel house was just dusty and covered in cobwebs, or as my sister refers to them 'Irish curtains.' It's OK, we're half Irish. :)
Oh, and his garage was full of 40 oz. malt liquor bottle. FULL. Two car garage, front to back, about 5 to 6 feet high.
But we've since eliminated a lot of things on the list. We have a hearing on the 12th to see what will happen. I have the fire marshal coming in on the 11th, so he can see that we've made a hell of a lot of progress and we hope he can go to bat for us on the 12th for an extension on the timetable.
But enough about politics, my dad is moving his head around, he's far more conscious of what's going on. We wants to get out of the bed, but we tell him to wait. He corrected me on Johnny Unitas's jersey number today. He's being a stubborn old bastard, and was mumbling about getting on the bus to get the hell out because i wouldn't take him away in my car.
He's physically fine and slowly coming around mentally. He starts his rehab regimen on Monday. He wants me to bring my dog in. He wants a cigarette and a beer.
Things are looking better for him, and once this whole house thing passes over I can focus on him. My sister and I hope to move into his house, which belonged to my Grandparents who were the original owners in 1963. Found my Grandfather's medals, Holy Shit there's alot. Found his footlocker from WWII full of official portraits of him. He retired as an O-6 Captain. Found his dogtags AND my father's dogtags.
But everything is looking better with time. There's a Veteran's group that is down to help us out rebuilding parts of the house. The Burn Institute came yesterday and gave us smoke detectors. My firends have been amazing people, they worked with me today like they were getting paid. 7 hour straight in 90+ degree weather. We removed about 3 tons of bottles. Maybe more. I lost count days ago.
Anyway, more details later. Things are looking up. Just need time.
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Oh, and his garage was full of 40 oz. malt liquor bottle. FULL. Two car garage, front to back, about 5 to 6 feet high.
My firends have been amazing people, they worked with me today like they were getting paid. 7 hour straight in 90+ degree weather. We removed about 3 tons of bottles. Maybe more. I lost count days ago.
Anyway, more details later. Things are looking up. Just need time.
With all those bottles, you may be able to retire on the core deposits and buy a new house too. ( aren't they something like 5 cents a piece ?)
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Oh, and his garage was full of 40 oz. malt liquor bottle. FULL. Two car garage, front to back, about 5 to 6 feet high.
My firends have been amazing people, they worked with me today like they were getting paid. 7 hour straight in 90+ degree weather. We removed about 3 tons of bottles. Maybe more. I lost count days ago.
Anyway, more details later. Things are looking up. Just need time.
With all those bottles, you may be able to retire on the core deposits and buy a new house too. ( aren't they something like 5 cents a piece ?)
Brian are you sure they aren't dipping into the 40 stock?
RR that is to funny.
Brian I very sad to read this and know how you feel. My mother had a heart attack last Dec. while I was in Germany. I'm glad to hear that he is doing better.
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$1,500 of glass. At $0.11 a pound. All gone. We've been putting the money back into the house.
I started a thread on his progress at TBS:
http://www.turbobuicks.com/forums/waiting-room/78111-my-dad-getting-better.html
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I'm glad to hear he's doing better. Hang in there buddy.
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Brian, it's been a few weeks, how is your dad doing?